Parents' Guide to The Girl Next Door

Movie R 2004 108 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

By Nell Minow , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 18+

Stunningly bad teen sex comedy.

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Why Age 18+?

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 15+

Based on 8 parent reviews

age 13+

Based on 16 kid reviews

Kids say this film is a surprisingly enjoyable teen sex comedy that combines humor with an underlying wholesome message about love and personal growth, despite its explicit content featuring nudity, drugs, and sexual themes. Many viewers feel it is misunderstood and underrated, arguing it should come with a higher age rating due to its content, while also appreciating its entertaining storyline and character development.

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What's the Story?

In THE GIRL NEXT DOOR, good boy Matthew (Emile Hirsch) is just about to get everything he's been working for. He's on the verge of getting a scholarship to Georgetown and he's raised $25,000 to bring a brilliant student to America to study. Then one night he sees a gorgeous girl (Elisha Cuthbert) in the house next door, getting undressed. She sees him peeping and comes over -- she is house-sitting. They go for a ride and she asks him when the last time was that he did something crazy. The next thing he knows, he's standing naked in the street as she drives away. And soon after that, he and Danielle are up to mischief. All is dewy young love in soft focus until he finds out that she's a porn star. He is disappointed in her. She is disappointed in him because he is disappointed in her. Danielle goes back to her porn producer. Matthew goes after her. Kelly goes after him. The $25,000 disappears. Snobbish bullies must be shown up. And there is still that speech he has to give to win that scholarship.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 8 ):
Kids say ( 16 ):

This movie's overall themes are truly vile. Many films present prostitutes as the romantic ideal, but whether the movie is a silly comedy (Trading Places), a romantic comedy (Pretty Woman), a comedy with literary allusions (Mighty Aphrodite), or even a drama (Leaving Las Vegas and Klute), there is something uncomfortably misogynistic about these heroines. They always seem to be impossible fantasy figures, eternally available and unshockable yet somehow ineradicably pure, and, perhaps the ultimate fantasy, having experienced many men but preferring our leading man.

In the most cynical manner, this movie smugly attempts to have it both ways. It wants us to be titillated by Danielle's past and yet root for her innocent romance. It wants us to assume that she is both hooker and angel. The ultimate conclusion is all the more smarmy for trying not to be. The main actors give decent performances and there are a few moments of comedy, a better-than-average soundtrack, and even a little charm. But the last third of the plot is both vile and stupid.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about what Matthew and Danielle see in each other and what the prospects for their future relationship are likely to be.

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